I worked for Planète Enfants in Nepal for over 2 years. At the time, I remember a country full of contrasts, the noise and dust of Kathmandu, a difficult socio-economic context, notably due to the still strong influence of the caste system and problems of governance. But I also remember smiling, welcoming people, a diversity of cultures and languages, unfailing hospitality and the majestic mountains in the distance. Through the testimonies of colleagues and people we accompanied, I witnessed the patriarchy that affected women's lives to a greater or lesser extent, depending on the caste. An unmarried woman is generally under the authority of her father, and then comes under that of her husband - and mother-in-law - after marriage. In communities where the practice of Chaupadi is still active, women are considered impure during their menstruation and must live outside the home, often in livestock shelters. Several women told me about this. This practice is no longer legal in the country, but is still practiced in some rural areas.
I have fond memories of this mission.
When I arrived in Nepal in 2014, my job as Head of Mission involved analyzing the context and issues, weaving a dialogue with partners and institutions, representing the association, increasing funds raised, supervising the local team and the projects implemented. Initially, we focused on human trafficking, with a strong emphasis on protecting children and women, victims of sexual and labor exploitation. We took preventive action and raised awareness among families and authorities of children's rights, the risks associated with economic migration, trafficking networks, etc. We also helped reintegrate victims and protect their children.
We were very proud to have given a voice to survivors of trafficking, who are often stigmatized, in "Radiant Women": a beautiful exhibition of portraits organized in a number of locations, notably in Patan's Temple Square. It was great.
I was on my way to the exhibition on April 25, 2015, when the earth started to shake. You're never prepared for an earthquake of this magnitude. Many temples collapsed onto the squares. We slept outside for 3 nights for fear of the buildings collapsing - which was nothing compared to some people who found themselves sleeping for several months in makeshift shelters. Once the shock had passed, mutual aid in the neighborhoods quickly took hold, and Planète Enfants adapted its mission to respond to the emergency: we distributed basic necessities, organized "Child-Friendly Spaces" to welcome children, keep them safe and offer them activities. Then we helped rebuild and equip schools. The team, over-motivated and committed, grew with the disaster. There were between 10 and 15 of us working alongside highly committed local partners. At the time, for example, we were already working with the Chhori and Hira Dahal associations. Thanks to this support and to the accompaniment of women over several months, some became mini-bus drivers, police officers, seamstresses, lawyers...
I left Nepal in mid-2016 with a most enriching experience alongside Planète Enfants & Développement, a professional association that knows how to adapt to the changing contexts in which it operates.
